I want to kill a few myths and popular misconceptions with this blog, as well as to give an insight into the business of retailing Mother of the Bride outfits etc.
First of all, having trawled around various forums associated with leading magazines etc I have found our shop name mentioned on several occasions. Some praise us very highly and others knock the hell out of us. I guess we just can't please everyone all the time. It's always our ambition of course but no-one can ever do that much so it's something which we have to live with.

For what it's worth I have an attitude that we all stand or fall by our own actions. The business is difficult enough without worrying about remarks on online forums as no-one knows who these anonymous people are in any case.
So, now that's off my chest let me remind you that those people who post on forums are unknown to you, and if they slag someone off they more than probably have a vested interest in doing so.
Our shop is small. Can't escape the fact. We don't have room to accommodate a busload of incoming visitors all at once. We don't have a huge amount of free hanging stock with room to browse through the rails. Instead we have a shop which is absolutely stuffed full of all the important labels you're ever likely to bump into.
Think of this; if you go into a shop and it's pretty quiet with rails of stock that you can shuffle through easily then what does this tell you? It generally means that there isn't a good selection and that if the shop is quiet then it hasn't got a decent customer base.
Customers come through word of mouth recommendations, internet searches of course and by advertising locally in the press. So if a shop isn't busy then there's a problem somewhere. Of course there are also times when the season slows down that may affect how busy a shop is. To give you an example of word of mouth let me tell you of one particular incident. We were contacted by a Jewish gentleman some time ago who lives in Edgware, London. He was wanting to arrange a visit to us by taking an Easyjet flight to Newcastle, where we collect and return visitors at no cost. He and his wife Pyllis had been to a wedding in Westminster and were so knocked out at the mother of the bride's outfit that they asked her where she bought it. She told them that we supplied it by post and she was delighted at the service we gave her. Once the wedding was over, the same people sat at the reception table and another lady was at the same table and was also wearing a really special outfit. She told them we had supplied her too. The funny thing is that this lady lives in Glasgow. Word of mouth, Glasgow --- Westminster?
So, I met Martin and Phyllis at Newcastle Airport last Thursday, took them to the shop where Phyllis tried on several outfits and bought one by Presen which she never stopped talking about all the way back to the airport. She also bought a hat which was too large to take with her so I told her we would post it for ease of travel.
The jacket needed a slight alteration to it and we told her we would also have this done and send this by special delivery too. On Saturday evening we went to Birmingham NEC to view more spring 2009 collections on the Sunday. The exhibition wasn't as good as normal but that's another thing. We then had to travel to London to choose the new Paule Vasseur 2009 collections. On the way we called Martin and Phyllis and arranged to visit to drop of the alteration and the hat. They were knocked out at the service. I must thank them for their kind hospitality. You don't get this level of service anywhere else I doubt.
We sometimes get complaints from potential customers that when they visit us they may have to wait for ages for someone to attend to them. We recognise this as a problem and do our best, but at times the shop is so busy we just can't help it. We have three fitting rooms, not the single one that some forum poster has told you about. Each one is dedicated to one customer until she has finished her shopping. We can't hurry anyone up to make room for another, and if you were that lady being told to get a move on then I guess I know what the result would be. You'd quickly leg it out of the shop. So, if you do have to wait then please accept our apologies but when we can attend to you we will give you best possible service. We know there are shops which do appointments. We tried it. It doesn't work. HONESTLY. How long do we allow each visitor? An hour, two or more? Sometimes a visitor may take well in excess of three hours. We won't push them due to time constraints. Sometimes a lady will look at two outfits and buy one within half an hour. If we did appointments what would we do with the time when a customer has gone and the next isn't due for an hour? It's impossible to run a business like this. We find that most shops who do appointments tend to be slack most of the time but as they have to make an operating profit they charge more per outfit. So, in the meantime, we don't do appointments, we may get busy and you may have to wait a while to be served. But we will see to your every need once we can and we will provide an outfit at a very competitive price.
We have had a remark that this is the oddest shop you will visit. I can see why this comment was made but it's oddity has certain advantages. The shop is divided, more or less into two parts. The front is dedicated to the less expensive guest type outfits, casual wear etc and the rear of the shop has the fitting rooms and a certain amount of special occasion-wear as well as a huge amount of mother of the bride outfits being stocked upstairs.
Put yourself in our position. You have taken delivery of around £400,000 worth of outfits. You hang them on the rails and everyone who comes into the shop shuffles through them. Diamonds engagament rings do nothing for fine silk. Even the normal sweat on someones hands which acrrues in everyday circumstances finds its way onto fine fabrics.
So what do you do? Welcome everyone in and allow them to freely grope through all the stock? If you bought your wedding dress like this then I could accept this as being the norm but I tend to think that most young women would be horrified if they saw a wedding gown with edges scuffed, slightly grimy from being handled and even with blood stains on it.
We like to show you the outfits in perfect condition. We take time to do a personal shopper exercise with you. We will take as much time as you want to bring out the outfits in your size and colour and not push you into a decision or hurry you along. We want you to have the best possible experience and the best selection than anywhere else you'll visit. As I said, we can't always get it right but at least we give it our best shot.
So, for those ladies who think they have more choice by visiting more shops this is generally not true. We all stock more or less the same. When we look at each of our suppliers collections at the exhibitions we don't buy the full collection. We carefully select only those styles which represent the best in value for money, style and quality. In other words we only take the best of any single collection. You will inevitably find other less exciting or original collections with other retailers and at a price disadvantage too in most places, but we honestly don't think you will find a single shop anywhere else in the UK where you will see so many exquisite collections in any single premises.
Could I put you in our shoes once more. This is the sort of thing we hear day-day out. A lady has come into the shop, more often than not with at least two other people to cast their opinions. We show her loads of outfits; she tries on several and looks stunning in at least a couple of them. She then says that this is only the first shop she's looked at and goes on her merry way. I know that this is a prerogative of all customers but this is very hard on our stock. Last year we had one lady try on several outfits. While doing so she broke a fingernail and was bleeding. She got blood on 2 outfits. We didn't make a fuss, realised it was a mistake and didn't want to unduly upset the lady. We didn't make mention of it save for giving her a plaster for her finger. She bought another outfit and went away happy. We tried to have the outfits cleaned but had to throw them away. Did you know that most cleaners won't do clothes with blood on them now? It's all to with AIDS apparently.
The most infuriating part of this story is that she also booked a hat for hire. We do this on a non refundable basis as we often have to buy another hat in to cover further weddings. The lady came back into the shop a month later and cancelled the hat and gave us a good slagging off for refusing to refund the non-refundable deposit. She would tell her friends all about us, tell them not come to us etc. I guess you know what I mean. I haven't resorted to printing profanities on my blogs yet but if I told what was said by her I really would have to.
Anway, the net result was that we threw away two outfits valued at over £1300 and she screamed at us for not refunding £40.
Anyway, put that into the context of having the freedom to shuffle the outfits around on the rails. We have a responsibility to our customers to provide clean, unmarked and fault free outfits. We do our best to take care of this and with our personal shopper style of attention you won't miss out at all and will probably see a lot more.
Price is often talked about in the forums. I noticed one comment from a forum poster that the outfit for the mother of the bride was over £100 more than the wedding gown bought by her. This was an awesome discovery by the bride.
Why?
A wedding gown has a lovely silk exterior and then loads of inexpensive taffetta. It has some lovely bodice but it's generally pretty uncomplicated in make-up and of one piece, ie a dress of some description.
Not all mother of the bride outfits are in the same mould but the better ones are made from the finest silks, often metallised silks, lots of embroidery and with three pieces, a jacket , a skirt and a top.
We visited the exhibition in Olympia this August to view collections for next spring and saw some wonderful new styles. One of the collections which caught our eye was that of Ian Stuart. Not in wedding gowns, as we don't do them, but in his new venture into mother of the bride outfits. They were absolutely stunning. They shout class. They have as much right to be a premium price as the gorgeous wedding gowns he makes. They are truly worthy of it. They must cost an arm and a leg to make and is it right that he should do it to make an operating loss? Of course not. So although most special occasion fashions tend to be at the top end of the price range they deserve to be there.
Take a look at the wonderful wedding gowns by Ian Staurt, the four times winner of the wedding gown designer of the year. They are gorgeous. They are superb in design and are also quite expensive. You can't get this quality at a budget price.
Not everyone can afford these prices of course so there are always decent alternatives in shop. remember, as well as a wedding being special for the bride, it's equally special for her mum too. Her little girl has grown up and is leaving the nest. She want's to look her absolute best for the occasion and darn the expense. Let her have her day too. She's worked for it for many years.
For those who feel that Debenham's or Marks And Spencer is OK then so be it. They do keep a lot of stock and will always have something that will look decent for a mother of the bride. It probably won't be WOW, will possibly be worn by at least one guest at the same wedding and although it may fit the pocket it won't do mum justice. I know this isn't always possible due to personal circumstances but you should be aware of this beforehand. If you worry about the cost then ask yourself; would you buy the brides gown from George of Asda? Well if it's not good enough for the bride then why should the mum have to do something similar?
So, anyone fancy laying out several hundred thousand pounds to buy into the business? It isn't a bed of roses believe me but when you do a good job and make someones day you have a certain satisfaction that helps you through the nightmares of the next VAT bill to pay.
During the course of each week I get dozens of emails which all need some sort of answer. A considerable number of them are general in nature such as can I tell them who theirlocal Ann Balon supplier is. Naturally this isn't the aim of my website. I don't honestly know any more than a few competitor shops in the local area together with some of the others who have a high profile on the internet. I really don't feel any obligation to pass business on to other shops if they can't be bothered to make some sort of an effort themselves in advertising or producing a working website. I can generally take this sort of business myself and do it all by post.
I also get some very strange emails. I had one around a month ago which was more or less anonymous, ie, it wasn't signed and didn't have any form of personal affirmation such as starting with the words, "Dear June". It just said that for a shop that sells so many top designs and leading fashions, the website is a shambles.
Hell, I do it myself. I know from looking at other websites that there are so many which don't give people what they want. If I was a mother of the bride I want pictures of the outfits. Nothing less will do. So I do it all myself and I put as many pictures onto it as I can get. It may not look nice and flash, doesn't have any fancy pop-up images when you do a mouseover etc, but it's got more pictures than any other website I know of. And of course it's inexpensive. Most website creators I know charge an arm and leg to make up a site and to add more pictures or content during a season costs even more. So I do it myself. Perhaps this email was from a website developer touting for business?
As I get around three quarter of a million hits each year I'm doing something right for my efforts.
Another very strange email dropped into my inbox only a fortnight ago . It was also unsigned. Strange how those who post inane remarks always want to remain anonymous. Anyway, it said basically that this lady? had wasted her time when she visited our shop on two occasions and eventually bought her outfit elsewhere.
I wonder if she emails Marks and Spencer each time she finds nothing she likes there but gets it from House of Fraser? A case of a competitor's staff sniping at us? Perhaps, but I have to wonder on the nature of the mentality of such people.
As I said before, we offer the best selection of outfits in the north-east, probably carry more special designer labels than any other shop in the UK catering for mother of the bride, and try our best to give service that goes beyond the call of duty. We can't always get it right. We try, but life just isn't like that is it?
So we are pleased, well sort of at least, to hear of any complaints where we can learn from our mistakes. I welcome such feedback. There's no shop out there which gives 100% satisfaction all the time, which never makes a mistake or upsets a customer. By burying their head in the sand and thinking all's OK they just don't learn. So I welcome feedback, both negative and positive.
So, should you call into the shop and we don't offer 100% satisfaction then it's best to make it known at the time and we will address the problem there and then.
Just to round this blog off, please take note that although I have now added a SALE PAGE to the website, we still have lots of outfits we don't have photographs for so can't include them on this page. They are still on sale but only in the shop until I can get a decent picture of them.